You Won’t Miss Something Til Its Gone

I just met this guy and he is so cool. I met all of his friends and even his mom. He tells me that he likes me and that’s cool because I like him, too. The only problem is like one minute he’ll say something about how much he misses his ex-girlfriend, and then the next minute he’ll say something about us being together. I just don’t know what to do. Should I say good-bye and forget about him, or should I tell him that I want us to be together?
Don’t wait up for him. If he can’t make up his mind then move on. When he feels your relationship is crumbling he’ll come crawling back. Believe me baby!!

dearmjane@gmail.com

1 year ago

BFF’s or What?

My best friend and I just recently went out on what he called “our first real date.” It wasn’t anything big, just dancing and stuff, but afterwards a mutual friend of ours said that he had this huge crush on me. Until that time I had no clue that he liked me. He’s really nice, but I’m afraid if we date it will ruin our friendship. I’m not physically attracted to him but his personality is great. I Don’t know! Help me!
Never date best friends. It never works out and always ends the real friendship. Just follow your heart. You can’t settle for a guy either because, with all the men out there waiting to sweep you off your feet, you could miss a chance in a lifetime.

dearmjane@gmail.com

1 year ago
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Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without.

Confucious
1 year ago

I been slackin’!

Imma finish rolling my grapple blunt and get down to business! Where the herbals at?

1 year ago
chuktheblog: Crash… (via Chuk Love) J5 the night away…

chuktheblog:

Crash…

(via Chuk Love)

J5 the night away…

1 year ago

Fake it until you make it.

rawmess:

Being totally confident, secure, and in love with yourself is the biggest challenge in life, but gives the most rewards.

1 year ago

I'm Not A Complicated Girlfriend.

neko4gotherpotato:

I don’t expect you to text me 24/7. I don’t expect you to call me everyday. I don’t expect you to put me in front of your boys. I don’t expect you to ditch all your girl best friends for me. I don’t expect you to surprise me with roses. I don’t expect you to buy me the world on my birthday. I don’t expect you to always agree with what I say. I don’t expect you to pay for everything. I don’t expect you to go out of your way and buy all the things that I mention I wanted. I don’t expect you to put me over your family. I don’t expect you to brag about me to all your friends. I don’t expect you to keep all your promises. I don’t expect you to believe I’m the best girlfriend in the whole world. I don’t expect you to stop checking out other girls. I don’t expect you to never mention a hot girl in front of me. I don’t expect you to already know what I want. I don’t expect you to never be mad at me. I just expect you to be trustworthy, to trust me, to never take me for granted like I won’t take you for granted, to always be real with me, to keep equality between us, and to love me. That’s all

Well, shit what do you expect from your man? If you don’t expect him to think you’re the best girlfriend in the world or to brag about you as a gf or to even keep promises? High expectations won’t make you a complicated girlfriend, but low and expectations will make you a very disappointed girlfriend. You need to be worth the sun, moon, and stars to your man so EXPECT THAT! That said you’re def hit a point, your man does need to treat you like an equal and be trustworthy - you heard that boys?

1 year ago

formspring.me

I love my boyfriend a lot, but this guy friend who caused me a lot of pain, recently told me he loved me and wants to be with me. I don’t know what to do.

He caused you a lot of pain, but you want to be with him anyway? That’s obviously the first sign, you’re fuckin crazy! I’m not even going to justify this for you. If you want to be in that pain again, then by all means leave your boyfriend in the dirt while you parade your heart around the hungry lion’s den. Good luck, sweetie!

Ask Dear Mary Jane anything

1 year ago

formspring.me

Why did my EX get so mad at me when I unfriended him from Facebook? He broke up with me on Christmas. He sent me a mean email calling me a pathetic jerk looking for attention. I told him it’s best if we don’t contact either other for a while.

You did the right thing, baby. He’s a jerk and obviously hurt that you’re moving on without as much as a single look back. Facebook is not the end of the world and he needs to grow the fuck up if he thinks deleting him as a friend is a pathetic, attention-seeking thing. Tell him when his balls drop and he grows hair on them, you’ll add him back as a friend.

Ask Dear Mary Jane anything

1 year ago

Actions Speak Louder Than Bitching

I have never felt so alone before. Well, I’m sure I have, but I just hate this feeling. I have been kicked out of both of my houses, I’m not allowed at my apartment with my roommates because my dad doesn’t like them, and he has told the cops to be on the lookout for me. I’m currently living at my friend’s house until I leave for Texas to finish off my last year of high school. They are making me live with my uncle. I don’t know anyone down there and I’m going to miss my friends sooo much. I’m not even going to be here when my niece is born. I hate this life.

Well, it’s your only one, so quit your bitchin, sweetie! I don’t wanna be the devil’s advocate but what good does it do to sit and mope around about how shitty your life is? I’ve been living out of my car on the streets of sketch-hood LA and you didn’t hear me moaning. You gotta get out there and hustle! People like us who were born on the bottom, have no choice but to work our ass off to just make it big and that should be your motivation. Everyone likes the “from rags to riches” story so start your story now! You’re moving to Texas, right? Use it to jump start your life. A fresh start, a new beginning. And you can write your story whichever way you want, that’s the beauty of it. YOU control your destiney, YOU have the power to turn your atmosphere positive or negative. So stop bitchin and start hustlin to those riches!
1 year ago