Divorcee Status
I have been seeing this guy for the past 8 or so months. My feelings
for him have become stronger. I can tell his have too. The thing is he
doesn’t tell me his feelings for me but only lets out little hints
here and there. He has been married before, and he makes negative
remarks about being in love or getting married. He says he will tell
me he loves me when he is ready. But every moment when we are together
seems like the perfect time to tell me. How can I tell this guy even
“loves” me? And when will he even say it?
Sweetie, you’ve fallen in love with a divorcee. Divorced men are trouble. They’ve put up a wall around their heart and, luckily for you, you’ve been given the job of demolition specialist. So now you have two choices. You can walk away now before the wall comes crumbling down and allow him to heal and rejuvenate or you can stick by him and wait for him to be ready. Neither one is easy, but you need to know where you stand before you commit to putting your marriage fantasies on hold while he heals. Just know that while you’re thinking about when he’ll marry you, he’s thinking about whether you’ll hurt him or not. If you two aren’t on the same page, he’s wasting your time.
