The Trouble With College Boys
I’m 16 and am having trouble with my ex. We went out for a month and a week. I liked him a lot but realized he is rather immature and does silly things. He nearly got himself and his best friend kicked out of college. I decided it was the best thing for us to break up. We broke up a couple of weeks ago and now we’re really good friends. The problem is, we kissed last week and have kissed a few times since. But I still don’t want to go out with him again. I do still have some feelings for him but not as much and really don’t think I want to go back. Plus I feel I want to meet different people and not have to be in a committed relationship. I want to enjoy being single for a while. I still want to kiss him again though. It’s strange and I don’t know if you even know what I’m talking about. Please help!
I totally know what you mean, baby! We’ve all been there. If you don’t want to be committed just be honest with him. He’s away at college getting into trouble and you need to let loose, too. When you break up with someone, you can get lustful because you know that they are now off limits. Everyone wants what they can’t have anymore and it’s okay. But you don’t really want that scrub, girl. Cut it off completely (as hard and shitty as that sounds) and the feelings will lapse. You’ll be able to find a guy who has enough ambition and common sense to stay IN college.
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