Sweet And Slow
I know that this sounds kind of funny, but I’ve been burned to many times by guys who I thought cared, but in the end just burned me. I know you may not think that it’s so bad, but I found this really cool guy and I really like him, but I’m afraid of getting hurt, so I don’t want to get intamate. Don’t worry I’m not going to have sex with him or anything, but I just don’t trust guys anymore. I know this guy, and he is the sweetest guy I think that I will ever meet and I don’t want to screw things up, but I don’t want to get my heart ripped out again, by some guy that could care less about me. How do I explane that to him without scaring him off. And should I just take it slow or just let him have his go at me and what happens happens, Help.
You need to be upfront about your expectations in a relationship. Boys need clear instructions, girls, so don’t be afraid to speak up. In your case, you’re border line destructive with not opening up. Talk to your man and if you trust him then you SHOULD open up and move foward with your relationship. Take a risk, sweetie. Because he might be okay with taking it slow for a quick minute, but men lose interest quickly. Sometimes, we have to do things we don’t want to do if someone’s really worth it… Work it out, girl!
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