Early Bird Gets the Man
a couple days ago i kissed a guy friend of mine(todd) by accident. i know now that it shouldnt have happened. i liked some other guy but that didnt work out very good and im trying to get over him, and todd was just there and we drank a bit,so it happened. the thing is now i think i have feelings for todd but im not exactly sure id want to date him or whatever. and also, hes avoiding me now. well im sort of avoiding him too but hes doing it more. i dont want to come up to him first though. thisngs are just too weird between us now.
what should i do?
You’re both being immature. And that’s why little kids can’t be in these kind of hook-up/friends-with-benefits relationships. If you like this guy then break out of your shell and tell him you had fun the other night. This isn’t the 1900s anymore, girls, you’re allowed to make the first move! If you want a guy, you don’t sit there and wait for him to try to think up a good pick up line. Since we have the cleavage, all we have to do is show a little interest, make eye contact, and giggle. It’s THAT simple! Not really, but it pikes a mans interest if you’re aggressive enough to hunt them down instead of waiting for them. This guy definitely would appreciate it or he wouldn’t be acting like all awkward like Forest Gump or something. We can learn a lot from cougars in this situation. They are successful because they are confident in their sexuality and go for what they want. If you expect a guy to come to you, let’s hope there’s not a girl with bigger tits to distract him, because he’ll let you down EVERY TIME. Work it out, girl, and get your damn man!!
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