Age versus Smarts
I’m 15 years old, And Already attending college. I have always been ahead of people my age intellectually. So I never had many friends. Or gone on many dates. Guys just don’t like smart girls. They like someone that makes them feel smart. Well here is the thing, Now that I’m in college I’m around people more my level. But I can’t date guys here. They are all older than 18. Do you have any ideas?
No, girl, check it. It’s not like boys don’t like smart girls, it’s that boys don’t like it when girls make them feel stupid. Intellectual levels, age levels, and maturity levels are all COMPLETELY different levels. Just because you go to college already doesn’t mean you’re smart enough to know to handle yourself around guys. Guys are complicated creatures that girls will never quite figure out (no offense, guys, I know it’s the other way around, too!) My advice would be to go after guys in your maturity level. He doesn’t have to be in college, he doesn’t have to be your age, but he should mature enough to hold a conversation with you and understand what you’re talking about. Maybe like a high school nerd or valedictorian, something around there. You, on the other hand, need to know when to hold your tongue and stroke a guy’s ego. Boys don’t understand how to react when a girl is better than them at something. They are just programmed to think they are the dominate sex and way more competitive nature than girls do. So you being in college already is really overwhelming for a dude. He automatically thinks he’s inferior to you. The easiest way to dominate a relationship is to make the guy THINK they’re dominating. It’s fairly easy; just takes a little practice! Try it ladies, it goes a looooong way!
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