Silly Cling-ons!
okay this is going to sound bad but i need all your help. i met this guy about two months ago and i met him through my best friend at the time whom was sorda dating him. we became good friends and got drunk and well we slept together. i felt horrible. i finally told my friend and i ended up losing her but him and i really started to care about one another let me first mention he is wiccan and i am training through him and the reason we arent together is because he doesn’t think it is right to be my teacher and my “lover” so we are friends but i really care about him and when we are together its like we are a couple we still kiss good bye and fool around but i am the one who always has to call him and stuff. i don’t think its fair that i always pull so hard and he doesn’t do anything and i have told him this and even threathended to give up on us all together and he will try for about three days then goes back to himself again. he has a problem with communication and i can’t lose his friendship and him being my teacher.. but what do i do? i really care about him and he knows it but he never opens up and tells me how he feels. so help…. please..
You’re getting played, girl. He won’t go out with you because he’s your “teacher”, but he’ll still kiss you and fool around with you? Take yourself out of this equation and look how stupid you look! You fucked a good friendship for THIS douchebag?! You don’t have a friendship or a relationship or anything with this guy if he can’t talk to you or treat you with respect. You need to cut this shit out because you’re making yourself look clingy, silly, and spineless. You can threaten the relationship as much as you want, but that’s not going to change anything! He could care less, you’re just another sexy student he can manipulate and take advantage of! He doesn’t open up to you because you aren’t his fuckin girlfriend, he doesn’t have to! Get that through your thick skull! Find another wiccan teacher or another religion altogether since this one obviously allows a teacher to take advantage of their students. You need to get over this loser. That’s the best thing you can do for yourself AND your self respect!
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