Love Knows No Gender

Hi guys. Um, I’m gay. I found that out when I was 10, and I’ve been attracted to men for the past 8 years. Nope, nope, I’ve never made love to another man before, but they just turn me on. Now here’s the situation. I have this girl-friend of mine. She’s really nice and cute. We’ve been best buds for like a year now. But now, I’m begining to really like her. I find her really beautiful. Although I’m not sexually attracted to her, I just so love the way she is. I just can’t stand it when she’s not with me… I’m falling in love… Wait a sec! Reality check! I’m suppose to be gay!!! Or am I? To be gay or not to be gay… or to be both…

It’s okay to be attracted to guys and girls. No harm there. What you’re going through is just hormones and it’s your dick blocking off blood flow to your brain. Who said you have to confine yourself to one or the other? You’re just making this way more complicated than it has to be. Boys are wired to think with their hard dick instead of their heart. Stop watching MTV and grow up. You’re just holding yourself back here and before you know it, you’ll have let a great girl walk away because you’re so confused about your sexuality.

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